DiscoverDear Mom, Dear DaughterEp. 2 | Raising Daughters in a Country That Doesn’t Love Them | The Psychology of Male Violence & What We’re Still Getting Wrong
Ep. 2 | Raising Daughters in a Country That Doesn’t Love Them | The Psychology of Male Violence & What We’re Still Getting Wrong

Ep. 2 | Raising Daughters in a Country That Doesn’t Love Them | The Psychology of Male Violence & What We’re Still Getting Wrong

Update: 2025-06-15
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South Africa is one of the most dangerous places in the world to be a woman, with gender-based violence (GBV) affecting women and girls at every stage of life. In this heartfelt episode, we unpack how it feels to raise daughters — and be daughters — in a country where safety is never guaranteed.

We explore:

  • The heartbreaking stories of Olorato Mongale and Cwecwe

  • The emotional toll of growing up in fear

  • Why we need to start focusing on the perpetrators, not just the victims

  • The role of family conversations in shaping healthy boys

  • How mothers can raise sons who are emotionally aware, not emotionally shut down

  • The importance of positive male role models

    • Whether the rise in women’s empowerment has left some men emotionally lost — and what healthy masculinity could look like


    This episode is honest, emotional, and necessary. Whether you’re a mother, a daughter, or someone trying to make sense of it all — this conversation is for you.


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    Ep. 2 | Raising Daughters in a Country That Doesn’t Love Them | The Psychology of Male Violence & What We’re Still Getting Wrong

    Ep. 2 | Raising Daughters in a Country That Doesn’t Love Them | The Psychology of Male Violence & What We’re Still Getting Wrong

    Athi Nkomo and Mtha Agbiriogu